Terms of Service
Last updated September 24, 2026.
What Perfect Day Together is
Perfect Day Together is a tool for wedding planners: it uses AI to suggest alternatives — and, only as a last resort, a final recommendation — for planning disagreements between two people who are otherwise on the same team. It is not legal advice, financial advice, therapy, real arbitration, or any kind of binding decision. Every alternative and every recommendation is a suggestion, not a decree — both people are free to ignore it entirely.
Who this is for
Perfect Day Together is meant for low-stakes wedding-planning disagreements — budget, guest list, venue, family involvement, wedding-party roles, honeymoon planning. It is not appropriate for anything involving real legal disputes, significant sums of money, safety, harassment, or abuse. We run an automated check on submissions and will decline to mediate anything that looks like it falls into those categories.
You should be old enough, under the law of where you live, to agree to terms like these. If you're using this with someone else, you're each responsible for what you personally submit.
Accounts and access
Wedding planners create an account with an email and password. Couples don't — each person gets a private link tied to a random access code instead. Anyone who has your link can act as you in that conversation, so don't share your own link with anyone, only the invite link meant for the other person. We're not responsible for actions taken by anyone who obtains your link, however that happened.
A planner's account gives them the category and status of their own conversations only — never a couple's actual words, the alternatives offered, or the resolution reached. That separation is intentional and is described further in the Privacy Policy.
Acceptable use
You agree not to:
- Use Perfect Day Together for anything illegal, or to harass, threaten, or endanger another person.
- Try to bypass rate limits, the bot check, or the content screening, or otherwise interfere with the service.
- Impersonate someone else, or use it to misrepresent a conversation that isn't genuinely between the two of you.
- Scrape, resell, or build a competing service from Meet at the Altar's output at scale.
We can remove access to a conversation or account, or block further use, if we reasonably believe these terms are being violated.
No warranty
Perfect Day Together is provided "as is." The AI's suggestions may be wrong, incomplete, or just not to your taste — it's a lightweight tool, not a professional planner or mediator. We make no promise that any alternative or recommendation will be accurate, fair by your own standards, or available without interruption.
Limitation of liability
To the fullest extent the law allows, Perfect Day Together and whoever operates it aren't liable for any outcome, decision, or consequence that results from using this service or following (or not following) a suggested alternative or recommendation. You use it, and act on it, at your own discretion.
Your content
You keep whatever rights you have in what you write. By submitting it, you're giving us permission to process it as described in the Privacy Policy — to run the mediation, screen it for safety, and (only if you or the other party chooses to) generate an anonymized public recommendation page. See that page for how long content is kept and how to delete it.
Changes
We may update these terms or the service itself over time. If a change is significant, we'll update the date at the top of this page. Continuing to use Perfect Day Together after a change means you accept the updated terms.
Contact
Questions about these terms: [email protected] (placeholder until this app has its own domain).
This is a non-binding suggestion service — not legal, financial, or professional advice.