Perfect Day Together
Help your couples solve it themselves — before it becomes your problem.
Send your couple a private link. They each say their side, and before anyone gets a recommendation, they see real alternatives neither of them thought of. Most disagreements end there — no call to you required.
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Jamie: "I think we should keep the guest list under 100 people to stay within budget, but Taylor wants to invite the whole extended family, which would push us to 180."
Taylor: "My whole extended family is important to me — I don't want to leave anyone out, even if it means a cheaper venue or simpler food."
Ceremony for All, Reception for Fewer
Invite all 180 to the ceremony itself, where per-person costs are minimal, then host a smaller, higher-quality reception for about 100 within budget. Since Taylor's core concern is that no one feels singled out, a universal ceremony invitation addresses that without the reception cost scaling to 180 people.
One of four alternatives suggested here — nobody needed a recommendation for this one.
How it works
- Create a conversation from your dashboard and send the private link to your couple.
- They each add their side — no account needed on their end, and you never see what they write.
- We suggest a few real alternatives neither of them proposed. If one lands, they're done — no recommendation needed.
- If nothing fits, either of them can request a recommendation, in whatever tone you've set.
If it does need a recommendation
Alternatives come first, always — but when they don't land, either person can request a recommendation, delivered in whichever tone fits your brand.
Assistant
Fair, warm, and practical.
The Grandmother
Kind, firm, and decisive — like your grandmother would be.
Questions
Do you see what the couple writes?
No. Your dashboard shows the category and status of each conversation — waiting, reviewing alternatives, resolved — never their actual words, the alternatives offered, or the resolution. That's deliberate: the point is to help them work it out privately, not to give you one more thing to referee.
Is the resolution binding?
No. It's a non-binding suggestion — not legal, financial, or professional advice. The couple is free to use it or ignore it.
Does it just jump to a recommendation?
No — a recommendation is the last resort, not the first move. Before that, the couple sees 2-4 concrete alternatives neither of them proposed. Most disagreements get resolved right there, with no recommendation needed at all.
What kind of disagreements is this for?
Wedding-planning disagreements between two people who are otherwise on the same team — budget, guest list, venue, family involvement, wedding-party roles, honeymoon planning. Not for anything involving safety, harassment, or real legal or financial stakes.
Can the couple avoid seeing each other's exact words?
Yes — "Keep it Cool" is available on every conversation. Neither side sees the other's raw wording; instead they each get a calm, neutral summary of the other's position, reviewed before it's shared.